My,ex bf’s excuse was that he stopped having feelings because he realised I was desperate to get ily members etc moved in with him..we broke up xdating hesap silme yesterday, he said he Doesn’t love me anymore..
I met my boyfriend online while I was on vacations, I stayed there for 2 months and he lived like 3 hours from where I used to lived, at the beginning he was the one that wanted all the attention because I was ignoring him, later tables turn, he came and visited me for a few times we slept together and after that he said that he loved me, we weren’t going to be seeing each other again for a while because I had to get back, but he wanted to keep the long distance thing even if I told him that it wasn’t a good idea. He insisted and of course I didn’t want to break up because I loved him, after me going back to my country he doesn’t text much and ignores my texts a lot. He didn’t used to do that. I talked to him but he says its because he is busy and that he is not ignoring me. and that he doesn’t want us to break up, but we almost never talk anymore except when I tell him to call. The thing is he was my first andmaybe that is why he doesn’t want to break up with me?
I agree with him when he says you shouldn’t think too much into it. All this thinking ruins everything. Just have fun together and everything will work out the way you want it.
I think that you it’a a good idea to just give him the space he wants at this point. It has nothing to do with love. LDRs are difficult. Use this time to figure out what YOU want and what makes you happy. Everything happens for a reason. You’ll see what it is soon.
Hi ,I’m new in this blog,so here I go.I’ve been in 10 months relationship.I met him last year on internet using my fake account and he too as well.He confess that he was using a fake account too,so he decided to add me in my real account.We talk everyday until he said if he had a chance.But he didn’t call me even once,we just talk on chat box.So after that I said yes, a month ago.I just feel like he was always there for me.We shared a lot of things even our personal lives.Until it came to the point that we often argue because I was paranoid why he doesn’t message.I maybe did a lot of annoying things but he never give up on me.He said,he loves me very much that he wanna marry me someday.Actually were in a ldr ,and he tells me I have to wait 5 years or more.He always showed that he really loves me everyday.But recently after our often arguments ,he didn’t chat me unless I message him.He always said he was so busy and was tired so he had no more time to talk to me.Whenever I want him to open up any topic to start a conversation ,he can’t say anything but hmm, and said all we have talked was talked at the beggining.He really didn’t even call me.And I feel like he is hiding something from me.I always pleased and ask about it in a calm manner but he just say nothing.Every time I talk about it he became mad and ask why I keep on asking.He never say I love you anymore.He didn’t even greet unless if I did.I tell him everything that annoys and bothered me.Butbit feels like he doesn’t care anymore and didn’t talk to much because he said I easily get mad.What should I do,I loved him and I’m not sure if our relationship is working anymore.?